Your LinkedIn Network Is Useless If You Never Reach Out
The Simple LinkedIn Strategy That Opens Doors to New Opportunities.
If you want to unlock new opportunities, grow your business, or build a career-changing network, you need to master one thing: reaching out on LinkedIn.
When you do this correctly, you will connect with decision-makers, open doors you did not know existed, and build relationships that lead to real business growth. Instead of waiting for opportunities to come to you, you will create them yourself.
Unfortunately, most people do not know how to do this.
They scroll through posts, maybe hit “like” a few times, but rarely engage in conversations—let alone send a message to someone new. They know they should network, but they feel awkward about starting a conversation.
The number one reason? Fear of rejection.
Nobody wants to feel ignored or dismissed. The idea of reaching out to someone—especially a stranger—can trigger all kinds of doubts:
What if they do not respond?
What if they think I am annoying?
What if I do not have anything valuable to say?
These fears stop most people before they even start. But there are more reasons people struggle to take action.
Reason #1: They do not know what to say.
Many people overthink their messages. They want to sound smart, professional, and confident, but they end up overcomplicating their messages or, worse, saying nothing at all.
Reason #2: They think they have nothing to offer.
They assume networking is a one-way street, where they must first provide something valuable, but in reality, the best connections start with a simple conversation, not an immediate offer.
Reason #3: They believe people are too busy to respond.
Some people will not reply, but many will—especially if the outreach is thoughtful and personal.
Reason #4: They expect instant results.
Networking is not about quick wins; it is about long-term relationships. You will be disappointed if you expect immediate business deals or job offers. But if you focus on building genuine connections, opportunities will come naturally.
The good news is that you can overcome all of this.
Here’s how.
Step 1: Start with a simple, no-pressure message.
The key to outreach is keeping it natural. You do not need a pitch-perfect script. Just send a friendly, personalized message to break the ice.
Example:
“I saw your post about [Topic]—really liked your perspective. I would love to connect and hear more about your work.”
This works because it:
Shows genuine interest
Does not ask for anything upfront
Feels natural, not sales-driven
Step 2: Engage before you send a message.
Most people go wrong by sending cold messages without any prior interaction. Instead, warm up the connection first.
Comment on their posts
Share something they wrote (and tag them)
Engage with their content for a week before reaching out
By the time you send a message, they will already recognize your name—which makes them far more likely to respond.
Step 3: Follow up without being pushy.
Many people stop after one message. But follow-ups are where real connections happen.
If they do not respond:
Wait a week and send a short follow-up:
“Just wanted to follow up on my last message. Would love to connect.”
If they still do not respond, move on. The right people will engage.
How I Have Used This Strategy to Build My Network
I have been in marketing and entrepreneurship for years.
During that time, I have built a thriving business entirely through online connections. I have also helped dozens of entrepreneurs do the same—without ads, cold calls, or gimmicks. In fact, I have invested thousands of hours into perfecting my networking approach, and it has led to partnerships, clients, and opportunities I never expected.
But here is the secret:
I use the same techniques every time.
Technique #1: The “Comment First” Method
Here is how it works:
Follow five to ten people you want to connect with.
Comment on their posts for a week.
Then send a message referencing their content.
Why this works: They recognize your name, making them more likely to respond.
Technique #2: The “Value Share” Message
Here is how it works:
Find a post they wrote.
Share it on your profile with a thoughtful comment.
Send them a message: “Loved your post on [Topic]! Just shared it—thanks for the insight.”
Why this works: You are giving them visibility before asking for anything.
Many people send generic “let’s connect” messages. That is a mistake. These steps work better.
Technique #3: The “Mutual Connection” Introduction
Here is how it works:
Instead of messaging strangers cold, check if you have mutual connections.
If you do, ask for an introduction or mention the connection in your message.
Why this works: It adds instant credibility.
Technique #4: The “Follow-Up With Value” Approach
Here is how it works:
After your first message, wait a week.
If there is no response, send a follow-up with something useful (a link, resource, or insight).
Keep it short and friendly.
Why this works: You are giving, not just asking.
Technique #5: The “Give First” Rule
Here is how it works:
Offer something helpful in your first conversation.
This could be advice, an article, or a connection.
No pitch—just value.
Why this works: It sets you apart from most people who only ask for things.
That's it.
Engage before you send a message.
Personalize every message.
Follow up without being pushy.
If you do these things consistently, LinkedIn will become your most powerful networking tool.
And the best part? You do not need to be an influencer. You just need to start reaching out.
